Frequently Asked Questions

What are some successful personal stories of alienated fathers who were able to reconcile with their children after a period of alienation?

Jana has helped many fathers and also mothers successfully reconnect with their children who had been alienated from them. You can explore some of the testimonials HERE.

Sadly, Jana’s former clients are not always willing to show their identity publicly. The mothers of their children or others could try to harass them online or it could cause irreversible damage during ongoing custody battles.

What are some effective strategies or approaches that alienated fathers can use to reconnect with their children?

As a coach who specializes in alienated fathers, I can give useful strategies and tools to each parent. The tools to effectively better the communication with alienated children and increase the chances for reconnecting, need to be tailored to every particular situation and parent.

That’s why getting to know more about a fathers history, family and current situation will allow me to find the most suitable strategies. Feel free to book a FIRST consultation HERE.

For fathers who are not sure if reconnection will be possible, I also recommend a first consultation.

Is your coaching the same content for everyone, like several steps? Or is it all personalized coaching?

My 1:1 coaching is totally tailored and personalized to each client. Every father, every mother and every daughter who reaches out to me for help, is unique. Every father has a unique personality, past and situation, so my coaching adapts to their needs, way of learning and takes into account what their history with their children has been. Was there parental alienation? Was this father raised in a nuclear family? Does this father learn better reading or listening to me in coaching sessions?

Please feel free to use this form to apply to 1:1 coaching so I can find the best alternative for you. CLICK HERE

Can a coach be a good alternative to help me rebuild a damaged relationship with my adult daughter?

Embarking on the journey of reconnection may benefit from the support of a professional guide. Coaching services, like those offered here, provide fathers with the tools and strategies to navigate the delicate terrain of rebuilding relationships. A coach can offer insights, communication techniques, and emotional support tailored to your unique situation.

To see if the coaching offered HERE would be a good match for you, please feel free to schedule a first consultation (HERE).

Do I get my coaching in person?

I coach my clients online normally. The one on one Coaching sessions take place using Zoom or Skype.

Only exclusive retreats or out of the ordinary arrangements will require me to travel to see my clients.

Are there any specific resources or support groups available for alienated fathers seeking to rebuild their relationship with their children?

Jana holds Q&A sessions for groups of alienated fathers regularly.

Everyone can register once, and join all the times they want. These sessions take place via Zoom, once a month. They are a safe place for alienated fathers to get answers, share, listen and get valuable guidance and support.

To register, please subscribe to the newsletter so we can send you your invitation. USE this LINK and join Jana’s group Zoom session for FREE.

Can therapists or counselors effectively assist alienated fathers in rebuilding their relationship with their children?

At least half of my coaching clients have had therapists in the past or work with both me and their therapist simultaneously.

It often surprises people, but the vast majority therapists are not specially trained on parental alienation. If you want to work with a therapist I advise you to search specifically for therapists who are familiar with not only parental or child alienation, but also with helping fathers dealing with these issues.

What if I was never alienated from my daughter but we still are estranged from each other and want to repair our relationship?

Beyond Parental Alienation

While parental alienation is a painful reality for some, it's essential to recognize that not all estrangements are rooted in malicious intent. Rebuilding relationships often involves reframing the narrative and focusing on shared positive experiences, fostering an environment where love and understanding can flourish.

Why can my counselor or therapist not help me when parental alienation happens?

Truth is that most therapists or counselors, even psychotherapists do not learn about parental alienation during their years of formal education. In my years of activity as a coach, working with alienated fathers and also mothers or stepmothers, I have received emails and comments from licensed therapists or counselors.

Even former psychotherapists have admitted in my comment section or via email, that parental alienation was a foreign concept to them until they first read about it or came across it in their practice. They have asked for information and even help to learn more about parental alienation, so they can become more proficient to help their clients. Given the fact that there is also lots of misinformation online about parental alienation, many counselors or therapists are not sure where to look or who to ask for the right information.

Feel free to book a first consultation with me so I can assess your situation and see what tools or assistance I can provide. Use THIS LINK.