Testimonials and feedback

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J.G. (divorced father of a child from US - struggling with co-parenting while divorcing - high conflict)

“I was feeling confused, frustrated and often too reactionary in my responses to a personality I couldn’t understand. (…)

I gained better clarity and learned to find solutions I had once had much confusion over. Jana genuinely cares and will take the time to delve into the specifics of your situation.  She is very intuitive so you won’t be wasting time trying to get someone to understand you.  She will.“

Where would you be if you had not booked Jana? “Still wrestling with the same confusion and less resolved.


B.D. (father of an alienated daughter, US) He and his wife booked a Six weeks coaching program.

“Less than 5 weeks in we’re already seeing great progress. My daughter is back in our home. (…) Jana helps you reclaim your power (…). She provides real time support right when you need it and helps remove the fear, anxiety, and constant sinking feeling from your interactions with your ex and your child.

One way to think about the cost (monetary) is to compare it with what you would spend trying to get worse advice from your lawyer.”


Zena Fleck, from the US. She reached out to Jana via Instagram to help her brother reconnect with his alienated daughter (10 years no contact)

“Jana, the time you spent with me was priceless. Your coaching and guidance will never be forgotten.

The work you’re doing for families and fathers is beyond moving. My brother and his daughter reunited on Thursday, after more than a decade of pushback and challenges.”


“This woman has been amazing support, can’t recommend her enough. Jana has gone out of her way to help me.”

I.H. Father from the UK of a daughter, currently fighting alienation


A.J. (father of 5 children, one of them an alienated daughter, UK)

What was the biggest challenge you where facing when it comes to your daughter?

Not knowing where she is, and facing absurd hostility trying to find out.

How was that making you feel on a daily basis?

Paranoid, demonised, judged.

Where you able to meet some of your expectations?

I’ve exceeded some of my expectations.

Would you recommend Jana's services to other dads?

I would highly recommend Jana’s services.


A.R. Alienated mother from the US. who gave her feedback on Jana’s work and content she shares on social media.

“If you are going through #parentalalienation I encourage you to reach out to jana! (…) She mostly works with fathers but she does work with moms too.

If Jana had been around when I was going through the court system and experiencing Parental Alienation (and even abuse) Jana would have saved me thousands of dollars. I would still have my child in my life today, and she would have been there to guide me on everything I should and should not have done.”


M. A. W. Alienated Mom of three teenage kids, from Mexico, living in LA, USA.

“I am back at it to thank you so much from the bottom of my heart for all your help and all the time you put not only to listen about my concern with my brother but you also for the time you so generously gifted me to listen to my own story and gave me powerful tools to help me in the relationship with my children. 

I sent text messages to my sons, and one of them immediately responded and said that message I sent (the way you advised me) meant so much to him! 

Thank you for teaching how to appropriately communicate that my love for them is unconditional. Thank you for teaching me the priceless gift of communicating with my teenagers.”

Z.KB, adult daughter who wanted to re-build the relationship with her estranged father

“I was able to change my entire relationship with my father. Before working with her it was categorized by resentment, anger, sadness, and neglect and now I have an authentic and strong connection with him that I never imagined I would be able to develop.”

What would she tell somebody who needs help but is still not making the decision to book Jana?

“I would ask that person to think about if they want to heal their hurt and see if there is love left to rebuild. This was the only route that gave me peace with the relationship. If they are interested in that idea, then working with Jana is the right move.”

J.N. Divorced father, US, alienated from his 2 daughters.

(Jason booked Jana’s 1:1 coaching with real-time assistance)

“I was watching my relationship with my daughters slowly deteriorate.  

I like that Jana is so close. If I ask her a question or advice, it always comes back very quickly.  I like that since some situations or conversations unfold very quickly with my alienated children.  

What I like having is someone at my fingertips that can help me navigate certain situations with my kids. Sometimes I have ideas of what I want to say or do and she’s able to shed a different light if needed and I find that to be very helpful. “


D.R (father from an alienated daughter from the UK) He could finally have his daughter flown over for the first time in years)

Messages sent through the communication app used by Jana and her clients.

“100%. It helped me to be a better person, keep things civil and focus purely on my daughter and not the mom.

(…) You have to play the long game and be so patient. Reading your quotes made me realize I was not alone through the dark days. “


B.Y. (father of a 10 year old daughter from the US, living in Europe) Was dealing with parental alienation.

Message sent by this father through the communication app used during his coaching with Jana:

“I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for the help and strength that you have given me during this ordeal! Without your help I am convinced I would have made mistakes that would have made the situation worse for my daughter.

Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!”


J.A. Father from the US who has been years apart from his kids.

He is a former client and left this feedback to Jana on her instagram account @janacoaching

“The day I felt lost made me call Jana. (…) Jana was so patient talking to me and walking through steps before, during and after my consult. My experience with her was priceless. She goes way above and beyond her work. What I’m telling you is Jana is a compassionate person who is very dedicated to her coaching.

Her work is exceptional. I will definitely continue seeking her guidance. My kids deserve it! Jana, I can never thank you enough.”


D.K. Alienated father, UK. Had a first consult and a session with Jana.

“I think your direction to keep it light and acknowledging her and her feelings and making it about her not me, did help. (…) Hardest bit is the thought of it and the blank page.”


M.S. Alienated father, US. Father of 8 Kids, some were not talking to him.

“I wanted to say thank you again. You have prompted SO much thought for me, and given me a whole new perspective on how my children might be thinking, feeling, etc. I feel like I have a renewed resolve in advocating for what will be best for my children. (…) It’s also a great comfort to know that you’ll be there for the future as well. I’m sure I will need your voice of wisdom & reason at some point”.


S.D. (stepmother of an alienated daughter, US) She wrote this testimonial 4 weeks after starting the coaching program with her husband.

“ Jana helps step moms too. The amount of real time support she offers is priceless. It has made us better parents, me a better support to my husband, kids and step daughter that has been trying to keep loyalty with her mom and DOESN’T actually hate us.

She has been home with us and is requesting to stay with us more. We still have work to do, but we wouldn’t be here today without Jana’s support.


P.C-B. (father of an adult daughter) This father and his adult daughter wanted to repair their relationship. They came to coaching sessions together.

“I would encourage someone, who is sitting on the fence regarding whether to engage Jana’s help, to trust her professional skill as well as her compassion. Her ability to listen to, reflect on, and balance the conversation was very helpful. She managed to make both my daughter and me feel that we had been heard, not just by her but by each other.

As a professional mediator, I know that people feeling like they have been heard is a critical piece of a successful conversation. The ability to listen to, reflect on, and frame the conversation in a constructive way are critical skills in what she does, and she uses those tools well.”

D.K, father of 2 daughters from the UK. Daughters have been estranged from him. He neeed advice & real-time support.

“Having Jana as a “phone a friend” on speed dial is invaluable and I don’t think it’s something you can find anywhere else.

To have Jana’s objective non emotive perspective with her obvious experience just took the messages I had, read them in several voice notes deconstructed what went wrong, what could have been done and coached me on what to do next.”

C.W. Alienated father, US. Father of 3 boys.

“When I worked with Jana, she was available around the clock to support me. She was very responsive with good feedback that I needed.

I also worked with others. What I liked with Jana was that it was more one on one and individual coaching.”

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S.O (fatherless daughter and single mother of one daughter, USA)

Jana usually coaches fathers, why did you contact her?

I contacted her through the founder of @fathersareimportant on instagram.

What solutions where you expecting to get out of your interaction with Jana?

I knew she would change my life for the better the minute I first heard her speak her thoughts about fatherless daughters. It was a great first impression.

Where you able to meet some of your expectations?

Absolutely , Jana was outstanding throughout my journey of healing. She gave me great advice and wonderful feedback and made me realize why I felt the way I did growing up not having my father in my life .

Can you name a few positive results that specially stand out for you?

To stay strong at all time during your process of healing (…) She incredibly helped me cope with my own feelings and emotions.

Would you recommend Jana's services to a father?

Absolutely, without a doubt.

R.B. Mother of 2 from Portugal, severely alienated from her teenage daughter for a year.

This is some of the feedback she gave Jana over the Telegram app:

Just finishing the Mentorship:

“I love working with you. You have a great feminine/masculine energy balance, meaning that you are a rare and unique mix of empathy (and sympathy) with action. For me, you're a perfect match.”

(In the first weeks of coaching)

“I thought I wasn’t getting any results because I was doing baby steps. It seemed like I was causing more conflict. But I was really opening a door.

I saw then, that I was making my daughter talk, tell me what was wrong. What was wrong in her eyes and the same for me. Baby steps feel like you’re not going anywhere, but you start walking.”

Several months after finishing the 6 Weeks Mentorship:

“We’ve been toghether on 3 or 4 different occasions. I won’t stress her. I have noticed that she is starting to understand some things on her father’s behaviour and that I’m the opposite.”